Best Friends Book of Alzheimer’s Activities, Volume One

By Virginia Bell, M.S.W., David Troxel, M.P.H., Tonya Cox, M.S.W., L.N.H.A., and Robin Hamon, M.S.W.

ISBN 978-1-878812-88-9
224 pages
8.5  x 11 papercover
© 2004


Bring out the best in each person with dementia with these versatile, easy-to-implement Best Friends™ activities. A best friend knows your habits, what you like to do, and what makes you feel good. The Best Friends Book of Alzheimer’s Activities puts all of these qualities to work to help you transform the activity programming at your nursing facility, adult day center, assisted living facility, or home care setting. Staff, participants, and even family members will all benefit.

With the ideas and suggestions found in this book, any member of a program’s care staff can turn the simplest interaction with a person with dementia into an activity that helps satisfy essential physical, emotional, and spiritual needs. In these inspiring pages, you will find

  • formal and informal activities, with innumerable variations
  • communication and conversation tips
  • suggested songs and musical tie-ins
  • adaptations for people in the early and late stages of Alzheimer’s disease
  • activities for unprogrammed time, including evenings
  • ideas especially for men
  • opportunities for intergenerational exchanges
  • preventive measures to avoid unwanted surprises
  • reminders of the spiritual benefits inherent in good activities

Planning activities for people with dementia may seem challenging, but The Best Friends Book of Alzheimer’s Activities shows how easy and natural it can be.

Best Friends™ is a trademark of Health Professions Press, Inc.


1. Being Together Between Structured Times

  • Acknowledge Me
  • Use My Preferred Name
  • Be Affectionate
  • Listen to Me
  • Laugh with Me
  • Give Me a Hug
  • Take a Walk Outside
  • Reminisce with Me
  • Encourage Me
  • Give Me Compliments
  • Ask for My Opinion
  • Let Me Show You
  • Look Out the Window
  • Let Me Teach You
  • Invite Me to Help
  • Talk About Meaningful Subjects

2. Recreating the Classroom Experience

  • Flashback Fashions
  • Listen to the Wind
  • High School in the 1950s
  • Stop and Smell the Roses
  • Here Comes the Bride
  • On the Road Again
  • Living “Down on the Farm”
  • Trips to the Ocean
  • Music to My Ears
  • Winter Memories
  • Summertime
  • An Apple a Day
  • “Bean” There, Done That
  • Colors of the Rainbow
  • Hats Off to You
  • Thanksgiving Blessings
  • Camping Out
  • Remembering Childhood Games
  • Bright Lights/Big City
  • Celebrating Cinco de Mayo

3. Let’s Create

  • Sandpaper Art
  • Ink Paintings of Winter Trees
  • Writing Poetry
  • Folded Paper Paintings
  • Dab It!
  • Stenciling
  • Marbling
  • Painting with Bubbles
  • Scrap Paper Art
  • Fantasy Character Collage
  • Fabric Landscapes
  • Egg Shell Art
  • Paper Mache Solar System
  • Faux Mosaics
  • Clay Pinch Pots
  • Flower Pounding
  • Painting with Marbles
  • Collage
  • Handmade Paper

4. Doing for Others

  • Creating One-of-a-Kind Greeting Cards
  • Making Envelopes for Greeting Cards
  • Making Bird Feeders
  • Creating Wrapping Paper
  • Decoupage
  • Bead Work
  • Sharing Life with Young Children
  • Potpourri
  • Be My Valentine
  • Sock Monkeys
  • Being a Volunteer
  • Sun Catchers
  • Planning an Art Show
  • Oranges with Cloves
  • Baking
  • Entertaining
  • Dog Biscuits

5. Games and Things to Do Together

  • Working with Letters
  • Fun with Words
  • Old Sayings
  • Affirming Adjectives
  • This Is Your Life
  • Table Games
  • Lotto
  • Who Is It?
  • Charades
  • Bowling
  • Horseshoes
  • Pitching and Catching
  • Batting a Balloon
  • What Is It?
  • Let’s Dance
  • Group Exercise

6. Personal Care as an Activity

  • Let’s Eat
  • Toileting
  • Dressing
  • Bathing
  • Hand Care
  • A Close Shave
  • Hair Brushing & Combing
  • Make-Up
  • Brushing Teeth
  • Moving and Stretching
  • Going to Bed
  • Waking Up

7. Especially for Men

  • Sports
  • Cars
  • Tools of the Trade
  • Scrap Wood Sculpture
  • Occupations
  • Military
  • Woodworking
  • Trains
  • Radio
  • Flags
  • Weather
  • Money
  • Newspapers
  • The Men’s Club
  • Hobbies

8. In the Home

  • Reading Together
  • Gardening
  • A Clean Sweep
  • Washing Dishes
  • Bon Appetit
  • Working Outside
  • Taking a Drive
  • Shopping
  • Talking on the Telephone
  • Dining Out
  • Creating a Bird Sanctuary
  • Being in the Community
  • Caring for Pets
  • Arranging Fresh Flowers
  • Traveling
  • Using the Computer
  • Laundry

9. After-Dinner Activities

  • Touring the Inside
  • Sit Beside Me
  • Postcard Collages
  • Remember When?
  • Lace Rubbings
  • Tea Time
  • Vintage Photographs
  • Chewing the Fat
  • Reading Aloud
  • Watching Television
  • Listening to Music
  • Wrapping Presents
  • Sing-along
  • Late-Night Snack
  • Night Owls

Conclusion: Mona Lisa and the Art of Good Alzheimer’s Care

Appendix A: Sources for Activity Professionals
Appendix B: Theme Boxes
Appendix C: Communication Tips


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Virginia Bell, M.S.W., has lectured widely on Alzheimer’s disease at national and international conferences, speaking at 11 National Education Conferences of the Alzheimer’s Association and lecturing at the last 16 conferences of Alzheimer’s Disease International. She has published journal articles and book chapters, notably in Dementia Care: Patient, Family and Community (John Hopkins, 1989).

Many of her articles have been reprinted numerous times: “The Alzheimer’s Disease Bill of Rights” (1994), “The Other Face of Alzheimer’s Disease” (1999) and “Spirituality and the Person with Dementia” (2001), co-authored with David Troxel and published in the American Journal of Alzheimer’s Disease and in Alzheimer’s Care Quarterly. She has also co-authored four books with David Troxel, most notably The Best Friends Approach to Dementia Care.

Virginia is currently the Program Consultant for the Greater Kentucky and Southern Indiana Chapter of the Alzheimer’s Association. She received her M.S.W. from the University of Kentucky in 1982.

David Troxel, M.P.H., has become nationally and internationally known for his writing and teaching in the fields of Alzheimer’s disease and long-term care. He has co-authored four influential books (most notably, The Best Friends Approach to Dementia Care) on Alzheimer’s care as well as numerous articles relating to Alzheimer’s disease care and staff development and training.

His latest book on activities was published in 2004. David received his Master’s Degree in Public Health from UMDNJ, Robert Wood Johnson Medical School (formerly Rutgers Medical School) in 1986.

David is a past Executive Board member of the American Public Health Association and is a member of the Ethics Advisory Panel for the United States Alzheimer’s Association. He currently serves as a Program Consultant to the Alzheimer’s Association California Central Coast Chapter in Ventura, Santa Barbara and San Luis Obispo Counties.

Tonya M. Cox, M.S.W., L.N.H.A., is Executive Director for The Homeplace at Midway, a Green House® community owned by Christian Care Communities, Inc.. Tonya is among the first to blend the Best Friends™ approach into this innovative housing model. Her previous responsibilities as Director of Community Based Services for Christian Care included training and sustaining the Best Friends approach and overseeing the original Best Friends™ Adult Day Center in Lexington, Kentucky. She has also served as Vice President for Mission and Service for the Greater Kentucky/Southern Indiana Chapter of the Alzheimer’s Association, and for more than 15 years has been developing programs and services for persons with dementia and their caregivers, including working on national curriculum development for professional caregivers in various care settings. Tonya presents locally and nationally on activity programming and dementia care. She is a co-author on two of the Best Friends™ books (The Best Friends Book of Alzheimer’s Activities, Volume One and Volume Two) and contributed to The Best Friends Approach to Dementia Care, Second Editionwith Virginia Bell and David Troxel. She has served as co-chair of the Kentucky Alzheimer’s Disease Advisory Council and is a practicum supervisor for both the University of Kentucky and the University of Louisville Kent School of Social Work. Tonya is also Adjunct Professor at Midway University in their Health Care Administration Program.

Robin Hamon, M.S.W., is a Family Support Coordinator for the Alzheimer’s Disease Research Center at the University of Kentucky Sanders Brown Center on Aging. During her tenure as program manager for the Helping Hand Day Center, she developed a creative arts training program for staff and volunteers working with persons with dementia. Hamon is co-author of the two Best Friends™ activity books.


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